Limitations!

There’s a limit to everything. Patience, also would have some. Isn’t? We often hear, patience pays off, being patient helps, patience is the only solution, etc.. etc…But I ask, whats’ the maximum level of such patience?

Why?

Women can do anything, go to any extent for their loved ones when it comes to building a relationship. They work on it, exercise ways to preserve it, cover their partners’ flaws & accept everything, adjust themselves, accommodate to the circumstances in whatever ways they can. They sacrifice; they endure so much pain only to get more pain in return without losing an inch of hope. They believe in forgiving & forgetting. They believe in the word belief itself. They want to give another chance.  

But why is it that men chicken out the moment they see a crack in the relationship? Why can’t they equally show such strength, support and little sensitivity?

I find it strange, yes I do…yet women are called a weaker sex.

(P.S. – This post was based on a few observations. Ofcourse, not all men & women are the same.)

Work Woes

Having worked with a start-up before and now a fortune 500 has given me a fair share of experience & its challenges involved. It has also strengthened my belief that working with start ups is way better than working with large corporations. At least that way it’s a pool & not an ocean, where you get only submerged/eaten up by sharks and whales around. 

At times I feel I don’t belong to this fancy corporate world; this mad-race, racing with a bunch of people who forget what civilization, morality, ethics is… just to climb up the ladder. They say it only makes one stronger in life to deal with difficult people. It means I become more manipulative, more political, fake and mean minded to sail in the same boat, in order to become successful in life.  If career development means changing oneself to join the bandwagon then I despise & put my foot down.

A passing thought

Our share of experiences, teaches us lessons & they say… it helps us become more vigilant in life. But, we still fail to judge people on face values.

Just remembering!

I have been thinking over this for quite some time now. Trying to remember those people, whom I have met, but for a fleeting moment & then could never meet.

In life from the time we are born, we actually meet so many people. Actually so many, isn’t? While we are growing, in schools, colleges, work place, neighbours, during our trips & travels, at various occasions, weddings, get togetherz, social dos, etc. Some become friends, some fade away for good. Through some…we learn our lessons, some have inspired, some have hurt, while some made us laugh! It appears strange to me!

Rarely do we get to meet them later in our life’s journey unless destined otherwise. Of course we try to keep in touch with all, but due to pressing times and our priorities we fail to do so.

Just a little…

Patience is the key, I believe to a beautiful life! Sometimes, we become impatient, restless and need everything JUST NOW or NEVER. Solutions to our problems in life, quick fixing them, quick money, quick recovery, this and that…almost everything. How would life be otherwise? How would we know the value of happiness without undergoing some pain and hurt? If there’s a sunset, there’s a sunrise too. Times may change, circumstances may; but elements of nature can’t. God has ensured there’s a balance & am quite sure with a reason. Nothing is permanent, so are troubled times.

It’s about faith; it’s thy belief we hold on to,
It’s about strength, why we choose you,
Almighty You are, omnipresent by virtue,
we seek Your blessings & guidance,
…all through the journey of our life.
You are kind, You are forgiving,
In You we find solace – an instinct to happy living!

Just a little hope & patience required, isn’t?

:)

That SomeOne!

In life, there would be atleast someONE who would be the reason for a lifelong debacle or a miracle. It may be in our personal or professional lives or both. I wonder if such MORONS (who can’t be good or do good to others)… have any moral values, or a thing called self-conscience?

While, the ones who genuinely wish goodwill or even turn your life into a miracle at some point in time… are surely the angels in disguise.

Life’s melancholy!

Life is undoubtedly not trouble-free, comfortable and all hunky-dory! There are numerous such moments when we encounter severe disappointments and setbacks during life’s voyage but does that mean we sit and cry over the spilt milk OR choose to stand up, shrug off the filth and move ahead. There are times when nothing seems to be going right, there are times when all the roads appear to be blocked and we stand there vulnerable & dejected. We complain, we writhe in pain, develop self-pity & keep searching for answers…”why me?”…  

Well…perhaps … it’s God’s own way to run us through testing times and make us stronger to deal with life’s entangling complexities. We still don’t give up because tough times do not last but tough people do….!

Somewhere

Somewhere…
Someone is picking threads of life to survive,
While some are pleased with no complains.

Somewhere…
Someone is whimpering with pain,
While some are rejoicing their gain.

Somewhere…
Someone is crying over the love lost,
While some are celebrating their newly found soul mates.

Some say life is good, some say life is bad,
While life is actually a balance of good and bad!

Amusing

You trust…you believe… you love once in a lifetime! What happens when the trust ruptures, the belief is traumatized and the love is insulted?

-Simple! You still look for someone more trustworthy, loving and a responsible person :)

Is it true?

One unpleasant incident in life; that’s life-changing is adequate to change a person’s perspective, and attitude towards others. They become more considerate, thoughtful and empathizing by nature.