Last 3-4 years were plain awful. They were the most undesired chapters of my life. I was healing myself o’er a loss & brutal betrayal. It took long, as the wound was deep. But, I was determined to emerge as a true winner. To a large extent I have succeeded, but somewhere my health suffered. I ignored it completely. Never ate food on time or just ate little to survive. I had lost my appetite due to the traumatic phase. Lost a lot of weight, but in a wrong way. I was found to be anaemic, and started falling sick very often.
“A healthy body is very important for overall well-being, besides a healthy mind” – me
Good food, balanced food, exercise is crucial and should not be ignored, no matter what. It’s not that I was not aware of these effects, but I guess I had given undue significance to my grief and suffering over my body. And no one else, but I had to take charge of it and decided not to deteriorate it any further. Sooner, the better. Now, I strictly eat. In fact, I try and eat six small meals that include fruits, veggies, nuts, milk and all the essential dietary supplements required to nourish my body. I also religiously go for my half-n-hour walk followed by a few exercises to keep my body fit. Trust me, I feel good and feel more positive about everything.
“It’s stupidity to lose your health o’er problems in life. That will never help you get rid of the problems, but will increase them further. A good, healthy, strong body and mind is very important to fight all the odds in life – and no one else but you must care for better, in all grandeur and flaws to embrace life fearlessly” – me
P.S. A special thanks to Puja, since she helped me suggest the title for this post and provided all the strength to publish this
You know One of my friends use to ring every day from india to make sure If i have had something to eat … I know its easy t oignore when things are not working or have gone wrong.. I guess one does not feel hungry.
I developed a few problems, but now I have been going to the gym regularly , my hockey is back on , Running has helped a lot .. preparing for half marathon.. All in all its been good now .. I have almost given up on drinking , given up in a sense once in 2-3 weeks that is ..
You are right if you healthy enough then you can face a lot of problems ..
betrayal does a lot worse then actualy body harm ..
Take care
Friends are priceless. Even in my case… just to make me eat..they would plan for lunch outings etc..so that I would eat something…they have stood by me throughout…besides my family!!
And am happy to hear the progresses at your end
Good Luck with your marathon…
Thank you so much. friends are a blessing indeed.
You are absolutely absolutely right!
Hope things look up for you now!
How have you beeen?? Long time
Thanks dear…am hoping things wud be better…it has to be :p
I am so glad you are taking care of yourself now….I totally agree with all you said for I can totally relate to all you said.
Take care dear…hope things get better for you with each passing moment!
Hugs
Thanks Era. Thank you for your kind wishes
Huggggs!!!
Love you shweetie! And admire your strength…. It is inspiring
Thanq…thanq…thanq…
You are the reason for my strength
Hugggggs dear!!!
I see a lesson for myself there. Thank you
You better. ok ?